My husbands family

Luckily tom has supported me if the fact that I don't see his extended family now. Although the kids still spent time there I can only hope that their racist comments and small minded actions don't end up coming back into our house. Either way we are a lot more sorted now, I suppose in many ways I think that I should go I'm obligated as toms wife but life is so short and with many of the women in the family excluding me and other women who are brought in through marriage I felt that it's best with my mental health to constlantrate in the things that make me happy